2023年11月8日 星期三
Wednesday, November 8, 2023
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關於過去，當下，未來的聯絡
其實沒什麼好後悔的，很多事情就算時間能重來一遍，以當時的心智和閱歷還是會做同樣的選擇，避免不了同樣的結果。人本來就是在失敗中學乖的，與其抱著過去後悔，不如擦擦眼淚向前走吧。我們可能經常會想:“如果當初我怎樣怎樣就好了；如果當初我換了一個專業就好了；如果當時沒來這個城市就好了；如果當初再見他一面就好了。” 似乎未選擇的那條路總是更好的，但事實真的如此嗎?可能你選擇另一條路，大機率也是換一個新的煩惱，那些似乎必然通向好的結局也只是你的遐想。但人生最有趣的一點就是，無論你做出什麼選擇，你都是在向前走。所以不要糾結和後悔，腳下的這條路就是最好的路，不要總是去美化未選擇的路，不要站在現在的角度去批判當時的自己，要相信一切都是上天最好的安排，你所錯過的很可能都是上天在保護你。塞翁失馬，焉知非福，事情既然已經發生了，便不會時間倒流，讓你重新開始，我們能做的，只有在現在和未來的時間段裡，努力地做好每一件事情，開開心心過好每一天。
The connection between the past, the present and the future
In fact, there is nothing to regret. Even if time can be repeated, many things will still make the same choice with the mind and experience at that time, and the same result can not be avoided.". People are originally learned in failure, rather than holding the past regret, it is better to wipe tears and move forward. We may often think: "If only I had done what I had done; if only I had changed my major; if only I had not come to this city; if only I had not come to this city.";I wish I had seen him again. It seems that the unchosen path is always better, but is this really the case? Maybe you choose another way, the probability is also a new trouble, those who seem to lead to a good ending is just your reverie. But the most interesting thing about life is that no matter what choice you make, you're moving forward. So don't struggle and regret, the road under your feet is the best road, don't always beautify the road not chosen, don't stand in the present perspective to criticize yourself at that time, believe that everything is the best arrangement of God, what you miss is probably God protecting you.It's a blessing in disguise. Now that things have happened, you can't go back in time and start over. What we can do is to try our best to do everything well and live happily every day in the present and future.
